On Sunday, January 5th 2025, I had the privilege of playing at a graveside service at Arlington Memorial Park. The service was scheduled to begin at 10:30 AM, and my original plan was to arrive at 10:00. I always try to arrive early, and this time traffic was lighter so arrived even earlier than planned: 9:45—a choice that proved to be invaluable.
To my surprise, the hearse and procession of cars arrived much earlier than anticipated, at approximately 10:05. It was a reminder of an important lesson that I have learned over the past 40 years as a bagpiper: it is always better to be early than even a little bit late, especially when it comes to moments as significant as this.
The ceremony itself was beautiful. As the casket was carried from the hearse to the graveside, I played a medley of hymns, providing a solemn and reverent backdrop to this deeply emotional moment. The sermon that followed was heartfelt and comforting, bringing together family and friends to honor and celebrate a life well-lived.
After the formal service concluded, the family requested “Amazing Grace.” The timeless melody filled the air, offering a moment of reflection and solace for all in attendance. It’s always humbling to play such a meaningful piece and to witness the comfort it brings to those grieving.
Before leaving Arlington Memorial Park, I took some time to visit my parents’ grave and headstone near the back of the cemetery. Standing there, I reflected on the enduring connections we have with those we love, even after they’ve passed. It was a poignant way to close the day, reminding me of the importance of family, memory, and the role music plays in connecting us.
This experience reaffirmed the value of preparation and the privilege of being part of such significant moments. Music has a unique way of honoring life’s transitions, and I’m grateful to play a role in these deeply meaningful ceremonies.
I went back to graveside as the workers were already clearing up and played one last tune in memory of my parents and all those laid to rest at Arlington Memorial Park.
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